I have a PFC who is having questionable contact with a CPT, I want to counsel my soldier and need a Well worded example, to avoid problems..

PVT Snuffy, this counseling is to inform you that it has been brought to my attention that you may be having an inappropriate relationship with CPL Snuffette in Soldiers Platoon, Company, Etc.. I have also received reports that you may have engaged in public displays of affection with CPL Snuffette (holding of hands).

As your commander I am directing that should you be engaged in an inappropriate relationship with CPL Snuffette, it is to cease immediately. I am also strongly recommending and encouraging you to cease any unnecessary contact with CPL Snuffette. The only contact you are to have with CPL Snuffette is that contact which is only required in the performance of official duties.

I believe that your conduct creates an adverse impact on the morale, good order, and discipline of the unit. Should your conduct continue to indicate that you may be engaged in an inappropriate relationship I will consider implementing more stringent actions that may include reprimand, reassignment, or adverse action. Potential adverse action may include but are not limited to:
• Official reprimand
• Non-judicial punishment
• Separation
• Bar to reenlistment
• Promotion denial
• Demotion
• Courts martial

i hope this help

Thanks for the Help, I was having a Brain Lock and couldn't word it correctly.. This is perfect.